SEASON 6

EPISODE 2

Could Your Self-Doubt Be a Sign of Ambition?

“I should be further along.”

 

It’s one of the quietest, most common thoughts high performers carry.

Maybe the thought doesn’t sound so dramatic when it shows up. It might even sound responsible or honest.

 

However, in working with leaders from all walks of life, we find that underneath it, there’s often a quieter, more concerning question:

 

“What’s wrong with me that I’m not already there?”

 

In this episode of The Beyond High Performance Podcast, Amanda Jaggard, Co-Founder of MPI & Partner at Novus Global, sits down with David Miller, Chief Revenue Officer & Novus Global Executive Coach, and Mike Park, Novus Global Partner & Executive Coach, for a conversation about one of the most common hidden stories high performers tell themselves: the lingering belief that they are behind or not where they “should” be.

 

It’s not because they lack success or drive, but because they are measuring their present reality against a future that does not exist yet, or a comparison that is skewed.
And when high performers do this, the gap between “here” and “there” can start to feel like shame.

 

But what if this gap isn’t proof that you’re failing? What if it’s a powerful place to begin?

What you’ll hear in this episode:

  • Why “I should be further along” is one of the most common beliefs high performers carry quietly
  • How comparison can either diminish you or call you forward
  • Why the “prove it” energy that helped you succeed may now be costing you more than you realize
  • Why reinvention is rarely a solo game
  • How community, coaching, and acknowledgment help interrupt the stories you’ve been repeating about yourself
  • How to begin building from gratitude, self-compassion, and possibility instead of shame

 

And perhaps most importantly, how to stop treating the space between where you are and where you want to be as evidence against you.

That space may be the invitation.

The gap is beautiful. The gap is opportunity. The gap is compelling you towards something.

David Miller, Chief Revenue Officer & Novus Global Executive Coach
ADDITIONAL RESOURCES FROM NOVUS GLOBAL
  1. Free Companion Resource: We created some reflection questions to help you continue the work from this episode. Download Your Free ‘What Drives You?’ Guide 
  2. Work with a Novus Global Coach: Ready to explore what you’re actually capable of? Book a Free Discovery Call.
  3. Become a Coach: Learn more about the Meta Performance Institute for Coaching at www.mp.institute.
 
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